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The Seasons Of Life

By pastorbillwalden

There is a lot of reaping and sowing that goes on in life, and this was definitely a year of joyful reaping.

This summer our two oldest children got married to their best friends. Sarah married her long time friend Caleb, and Chris married Melissa. We are so pleased with the choices of spouses our children have made. They love the Lord, and we are so blessed to have them as our children.

Debbie and I have been married almost 26 years, and a lot of sowing has been done. We have done what we could to raise our children to follow Jesus. We guarded them through childhood, prayed for them through adolescence, and watched them enter into adulthood and then marriage.

As the farmer plows the field, sows the seed, and cares for it, so we have made this journey with our children. We certainly made mistakes along the way, and undoubtedly could have done some things better. Yet, by God’s grace, we did not quit. We continued to entrust our children into the hands of God, and He has done this wonderful work in them.

We endured the plowing, sowing, and watering. We have been privileged to see the harvest of spiritual fruit that has come forth. Looking back over almost 26 years, this is a moment for us to enjoy, and be thankful for.

Debbie and I both know that it was and is God that brings these things to pass. Some parents put forth that same effort, and have yet to see the blessings. Some parents put forth no spiritual effort, and God still reaches into those children’s lives, and does something incredible.

The point that I wish to make is this: I am happy that we never quit hoping and praying for our kids. We have lived to see the blessings.

Not quitting is a great thing. Persevering is a great thing. Some blessings will come only by not quitting.

I am fully aware that none of these present blessings were ever “guaranteed” to us, but we are surely enjoying this wonderful season of God’s grace in our lives.

10 Responses so far

Bill
Thanks for the invite to your blog. Still looking forward to hooking up with you one day
Steve Hopkins

Hey Bill, congratulations on the new blog! I look forward to reading what God is doing in your life. I am always blessed by what you share.

Love it! Thanks for writing. Oh and Lauren says she really likes you guys and wish you would move down here so we could see you guys more. ;)

Steve, Dave, Sam…

Thanks for saying hello. Just wanting to stay in touch with friends. Thanks for the emails.

Bless you guys…

Hey Bill,

Congratulations on your joyful year and your blog to celebrate it! I hope that the coming years will be as bright!

Love you Bill, hope to see your face soon, love to Deb

Oden

Hi Bill,
So it looks like God is speaking the same to us all. I too am in the process of starting a personal blog. I’ve got it all set up and a list of topics I want to write about. Can you guess what the title to my first post is going to be?….that’s right, Seasons Of Change. It’s good to see you doing this. I’ll look forward to reading.
Blessings to you and your family,
Mary Blaustone

Dear Bill,
Welcome to the matrix… :)

Can’t wait to read more…

Laci

I was also learning about seasons lately and got reminded that every church has seasons, just as we humans… it helped me in understanding what the heck is going on in the fellowship. :)

Hey Laci,

Good to hear from you. The church, our lives, marriages, and families, are all living, changing organisms. Seasons of change do come and go, that’s for sure.

God bless you guys there in Croatia

Bill:

God has blessed the Dohrman family with the lives of the all the Waldon . Thank you for this blog, it is just another blessing.
Jerry & Gwenny Dohrman

Hey Bill, Good article… nice blog. I never thought about the two words until you posted this. One thing that occurred to me is that one (tribal) seems to be something you’re born into and the other (fraternal) is something you joined (police, Greek thing at college, etc.). One had a choice and the other didn’t.

Not sure how that fits into your post, just an observation. Peace!

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